That magical night when it happened! Whether it was your wedding, or the birth of your child or any other special event. What could be a better way to commemorate it than with a Custom Star Map – a map of the Night Sky just like it was at that very moment! Modern Map Art has helped me frame some of my favorite memories with a custom star map of the night sky at the time of my wedding. Let’s take a look at this very special addition to my decor, my experiences in ordering it and some memories from the day night π
Stars – and their connection to Indian Weddings
The first thing that comes to mind when you say ‘Stars’ and ‘Indian Weddings’ is our Astrological map (kundali) matching. Well, that wasn’t the case here. We were so much in love that kundali matching was only a formality. But whether or not you believe in matching horoscopes, we all know that it has to be Written in the Stars when you are meant to spend your life with someone.
Another beautiful relevance is that most of Indian weddings take place ‘Taaron ki chhaon mein’ (under the stars) or late at night. Such was my own wedding too. The baraat began at around 8 pm and we exchanged garlands (jaymal) at 9 after which the reception and dinner took place. Much later in the night – at 2 am, the wedding ceremony began ending with the ‘feras’ and finally the ‘bidaai’ at 4 am or as we write on our Wedding Invitations – Taaron Ki Chhaon Mein.
Choosing the Time for My Star Map
When Jennifer from Modern Star Map contacted me regarding my custom night sky star map, one of the major details she wanted (but of course!!!!) was the time. Your custom map is created to show the position of the stars and the night sky at that exact moment.
Now, Indian Weddings as you know are spread over a long time and different ceremonies. Should the time be when the Pandit (priest) is reciting the mantras? Or when we take ‘feras’ around the sacred fire? Or when Bidaai takes place and I leave for my new home with my husband?
After a lot of discussion, Fabulous Dad and I agreed that the time should be of the first ceremony i.e. the Jaimal. We came to the conclusion that when we exchanged the garlands, the deal was sealed. There was no running back now LOL! So, we got our map made for 9 p.m. on the 8th of May 2004.
Getting Your Custom Star Map Done From Modern Map Art
Modern Map Art is very easy to work with. You need to give them certain information like the time and place (the night sky will be different for different locations!) and your preferences. You can check out details on the Star Map ordering page.
I gave some details like:
- Size:
- Color: Black, Navy Blue, or Dark Grey Sky (solid color for the whole poster or white poster with one of the colors above) – I went for all black with white stars
- Location:
- Date:
- Title: Some examples are: Two Become One, Our Wedding, Mr. & Mrs., The Story Of Us, Read below for mine
- Title Font:
- Message : You could add your names! We chose not to, since I planned it to display with our wooden initials.
- Message Font:
- Border: Yes/No
- Constellation: Yes/No – I didn’t go for it.
- Do You Want The Time On The Print: Yes/No
Within 24 hours, I was shown a mockup of how my Star Map would look like. After I approved it, it was shipped immediately from Latvia and reached India in less than 10 days.
Modern Map Art uses an incredibly detailed star database with hundreds of thousands of stars, to find what the sky looked like at an exact time and place in history (or even future!). The print I received came in a paper tube and was on the finest matte paper.
Taare Hain Baarati
Yes, that’s what I chose for my title! Every Indian woman knows this very romantic song. Every girl with wedding dreams in her eyes listens to this song, every DJ plays it at weddings and I am sure many of you got it added in your wedding videos. I did too! I made a special request to my Wedding Videographer to add this song exactly at the time of my ‘pheras’. And when Jennifer contacted me about nothing but a ‘Star Map’ of the night of my wedding, I could think of no better title than this one!
Taare Hain Baarati (The Stars are our Wedding Guests!)
Here are the lyrics for those who want a quick trip down memory lane.
Akhiya Milake Channa Pawe Naa Judai We
Deve Naa Tari Menu Saree Khudai We
Akhiyan Milake
Saato Phere Honge Ab Haato Me Leke Hath
Saato Phere Honge Ab Haato Me Leke Hath
Jivan Sathee Ham Diya Aur Bati Ham
Re Jivan Sathee Ham Diya Aur Bati HamTare Hai Barati Chandani Hai Yeh Barat
Saato Phere Honge Abb Haato Me Leke Hath
Saato Phere Honge Abb Haato Me Leke Hath
Jivan Sathee Ham Diya Aur Bati Ham
Jivan Sathee Ham Diya Aur Bati Ham
Tare Hai Barati Chandani Hai Yeh BaratGanga Jamuna Se Bhee Pawan Teraa Meraa Bandhan
Teraa Prem Hai Phulvari Aur Meraa Mann Hai Aangan
Janmo Janmo Kaa Hee Sajanee Teraa Meraa Sath
Saato Phere Honge Abb Haato Me Leke Hath
Saato Phere Honge Abb Haato Me Leke Hath
Jivan Sathee Ham Diya Aur Bati Ham
Jivan Sathee Ham Diya Aur Bati Ham
Too Hai Jivan Me Jo Pritam Sukh Nahee Mangu Duja
Aarti Nayno Se Karti Hu Mann Se Teree Puja
Me Toh Dharm Hee Samjhun Teree Kahee Hui Har Bat
Saato Phere Honge Abb Haato Me Leke Hath
Jivan Sathee Ham Diya Aur Bati Ham
Jivan Sathee Ham Diya Aur Bati Ham
Tare Hai Barati Chandani Hai Yeh Barat
Akhiya Milake Channa Pawe Naa Judai We
Akhiya Milake Channa Pawe Naa Judai We
Deve Naa Tari Menu Saree Khudai We
Akhiya Milake.
And here is the video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_g7rXOfHb6M
So there I have it – a custom print of the night sky when I married my One and Only and when the Stars became our wedding guests.
I think it a simply beautiful way to immortalize a very special occasion in your life. A wedding night star map, especially, is a wonderful gift idea for a Special Anniversary. Every map is going to be unique because it will be made according to the exact time your wedding took place (I know most Indians go by the exact minute of the ‘muhurat) and the place of the wedding or any other unforgettable moment. And it can have your name, message and other details printed on it. It doesn’t get any more personalized than this gift idea!
Richa agarwal says
Well thats very unique. I nevr heard this b4. Lovely.. wud surly like to add this spl map to my bedroom decor.
Swati Bhargava says
Its such a pretty awesome idea to capture our lifetime memory in a beautiful frame. I am so much impressed with the idea and gesture by modern map art to help in cherishing wedding memories forever. You are lukng so pretty and such dark mehndi. You two compliment each other. touchwood. Thank u for sharing.
Lata says
Thanks Swati! Yes, touchwood, I am lucky when it comes to Mehendi. It almost always comes out quite dark π
Silja Nair says
I just loved the concept. Its unique. … tomorrow our courtship turn 7…….. even while reading I recalled all the songs which I collected for my video
Lata says
Music is always such an important part of our relationships, isn’t it! Congratulations on your beautiful 7 years π
sumita says
This is totally new to me and very different it’s a smart way to capture all your memories in one frame
Suruchi Aggarwal says
Lovely and unique concept…Loved your pics tooβ₯οΈβ₯οΈ
niharika seth says
Unique concept which is very impressive also a great decor memory in a smart frame
nayeema says
it’s an awesome personalised amazing gift idea adorable concept and looks indeed
Hema LABANIYA says
Lovelyra and unique idea for me and it’s sound interesting make the memories beautiful through this my star maplovely pics lata mam
VEENA VINYAS says
Wow I am loving it… Its one of a kind keep sake gift for one self i ever seen… It is so meaningful, True that first in the marriage we see is if the stars match.. N now getting them printed for that exact moment , and having that in our living room ,sure makes it very special thing to have…. U always come up such unique idea which are so special …
Jayanthi Parthasarathy says
You look so sweet <3
Lovely song too
Nice idea about the star constellation at the exact time of a special event
Lata says
Thanks Jayanthi :). It is indeed a really special keepsake for me!
Noopur Agarwal says
Whoa this is something I never heard of and I loved the idea the moment I saw your map, the most unique and romantic piece of decor and gifting ever, thanks for introducing this it’s the coolest thing I have seen in recent times π
Sabari Dhar says
First time I’m seeing this unique and beautiful gift dear…. Amazing…
Monika S Kumar says
Wow….I’ve never ever seen such unique idea to immortalize such a memorable moment of one’s life. The night sky full of stars of that specific time would make such a perfect nostalgia to the wedding night and a great show piece to a corner of the drawing room at home. Loved the article, you as bride in the pic and that special song which we just loved as brides. β€
ankita says
This song is very near to my heart as in my childhood I drape a Saree from chuni and pretend like a bride ..you look absolutely stunning in your wedding pics . ..This concept is totally unique and interesting
Nilima Jadhav says
So lovely it looks. I love that song taare hain barati and it got true in your wedding too.. a very awesome and unique gift for a couple to make that moment so special and to cherish it..
Swati Chauhan says
Damn sure that a vouple would feel awesome after gettong it as a gift. Above all I loved the caption. This song is very close to my heart. Such a unique concept. Thumbs up!
Aaroo says
Wow… such a romantic blog it is. While reading this there was a shine, a spark in my eyes. N It was because i felt awesome as you share your sacred moments with us. Such a lovely n unique concept of TAARE HAIN BAARATI!! Loved d idea it is actually a wonderful gift
krishna maharana says
Woww sooo innovative and special gift for such precious memories …Loved the whole concept …